I drink A LOT of tea.
Depending on the brand of tea I drink I might get some bonus wisdom…
This is a reminder that we can’t give to others what we don’t have for ourselves. I’ll add self-love and self-compassion to this bit of tea wisdom.
Even if it’s never our intention, cropping the things we create to look at small areas has a way of magnifying their flaws.
Whether it’s the unsteadiness of drawn lines or how hard it is to capture the metallic sheen of gold ink in a uniform way in a photograph, our instinct is to search out the imperfections.
In many cultures, creating imperfections in things is a deliberate act. In Japanese culture, the act of creating deliberate imperfections is called “wabi sabi” and in Navajo culture, when applied to rug weaving, the resulting imperfection is called a “spirit line” or “spirit pathway.”
Knowing that these philosophies, and others, about making deliberate imperfections exist is sometimes comforting to someone like me who is a recovering perfectionist.
Nonetheless, whether we are aware that these philosophies exist or not, it’s up to us to take a step back when looking at the bigger picture, to accept and appreciate what we’ve created, flaws and all.
This was my weekend view.
There was nothing I needed to do all weekend except watch the snow fall and rest.
Being able to do that in a place that’s almost in the middle of nowhere and always quiet is something for which I am truly grateful.